Friday, 5 April 2013

NOT achieved your 'thing' yet? - It's time to CHANGE your game.


I coach so many people who are disappointed.

They are disillusioned at work.
They aren't achieving what they'd hoped.
They haven't found the man/woman of their dreams.
They'd hoped that by 'this age'...they'd have so much more.

They look around and wonder why other people have what they want. But 'life' of course hasn't treated them quite so well.

...And all the time they spend thinking about what they haven't got, they are sliding further down the spiral of negativity. The further they fall the harder it is to pick themselves up.
It's no surprise that their friends/family/colleagues....don't want to be around them. They can't 'fix' their life for them.

And that my friends is when the well intended, verbal KICK up the arse is so needed.Yeh really.

Who am I to allow YOU to drag yourself down even further?
Its time to change your game.

Something IS going right in your life (if you cant find it, I flippin' will)
Whatever that is ...build, build and build on it.

How much of this 'disappointment' have you brought upon yourself?.....
..(hold back from lashing out at me - I'm on your side)...we are MASTERS at self- sabotage.
And we are SO good at beating ourselves up.
Listen to your language - how DO you talk to yourself (mentally and openly)?
Until you support who YOU are, very few will be attracted to you. 


And - here's one that might hurt -
..Just how much have you REALLY tried to get what you want in life?
Because when you want something BADLY, you just DON'T STOP trying.
Ever.

For every disappointment, knock, or set back you have - there is a an opportunity for you.
The opportunity is in what you SAY to yourself at that time.
MOST people get angry, frustrated,hurt or worse.

THE WINNERS...say 'so what? - this has happened for a reason, BRING ON the next challenge'.
(or words like that).

The MAJORITY , slide down that spiral even further - and stay there even longer.Because 'luck' only happens to other people.
NO! - you can be as 'lucky' as you TRY HARD to be.

I never said achieving your thing would be easy.
But it DOES depend on HOW BADLY you want it.

Amana,
Straightforward,straight talking coach.
www.amanawalker.com



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